Dreading for the future.

Anonymous sent: Hi ate :) may nabasa lang po ako sa post nyo. Na ayaw nyong maging premature si baby nyo. May ishshare lang po ako. May kakilala po kse ako na 7 months plang ata yun eh pinanganak na. Dba po yun ang premature? Nasa incubator po siya nung baby pa siya. Tapos yung iba po worried na baka may kung anong diperensya ganun. Pero iba po eh. Lumaki siyang bibo tapos palabati sa mga tao. Tapos po ang gwapo gwapo :3 Yun lang po xD good luck po sa pangnganak nyo! Stay healthy :) take care :) god bless.

Hello. Thank you for sharing. :) i’m glad na it turned out well for him. :) galing din nung staff ng hospital kasi nakasurvive yung baby. Dito kasi bihira nila ma-save pag ganon kaya worried talaga ako. Don’t worry po. Hindi na po magiging premature si baby ko. Sa ngayon hinihintay ko na lang na sumakit tyan ko. Thank you po. Godbless you too. :) ingat. :)

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I fell in love with him. But I don’t just stay with him by default as if there’s no one else available to me. I stay with him because I choose to, everyday that I wake up, everyday that we fight or lie to each other or disappoint each other. I choose him over and over again, and he chooses me. —Tris, Allegiant
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if she flinches when you go to put your arm around her … someone else’s hand wasn’t so sweet … if she questions you … someone else has lied to her … if she doesn’t tell you things … someone else once betrayed her secrets … behind every cranky, complicated girl or girl who is scared to love is … a girl who is tired of being broken.

If someone cheats on you they do not love you, remember that. If someone cheats on you they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should only be for you. If someone cheats on you, dear god, I hope you don’t go back to them because you are worth so much more than that.

We all want everything to be okay. We don’t even wish so much for fantastic or marvelous or outstanding. We will happily settle for okay, because most of the time, okay is enough. —Every Day, David Levithan
shared on September 22 with 12 notes
You see, when you get old, you will realize that there is no such thing as the “destined one” for you. You get to choose who you want to be with for the rest of your life. You get to choose if you want the relationship to work out. You will know that you found the one if you unconsciously accepted them for everything that they are, even those factors which are not included in your “list”. You need to be a team to keep your relationship strong. Everything is not about you alone. You have to consider their thoughts or their wants too. You have to trust each other. Learn to give each other enough space to spend time with your family, friends or yourself. Leave reservations. Consistency is sometimes difficult to achieve, but you should keep trying. You should keep the spark burning. Court each other everyday. Things will not always happen to your liking, so learn to hold on. —A
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I am curious as to how people find their better half; how they can tell if it really is forever. Does it really require being hurt? Does it mean putting up with them even if they would not even listen to you? Does it mean accepting everything even if it is against your will? Does it really have to be unfair? I know that love ain’t perfect, but I do not know how they were able to endure it. I do not know how much they extended their patience. I do not know how they were able to forget about self-respect, and be as low as possible, just to save a dwindling love. I do not know if it is still love which keeps them together, or maybe they just do not have any other choice. —A 
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That moment when you suddenly do not know what you want and how you really feel. That realization when you knew that things cannot be undone anymore. That if you really want to make a change, you have to make a huge sacrifice that might either make or break everything. Then you will come up with the decision to just let it be — only to be confused all over again. —A 
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