Dreading for the future.
Leave if your love hurts you. Leave if it is always more pain than it is joy. Contrary to what they’ll tell you, love does not make the world spin round. You can want someone, baby. You can want them until you’re raw. That kind of longing can turn you into water after a live wire has been thrown into it. It can turn you into the hand holding that wire, but that doesn’t mean it’s right. It doesn’t mean you should stay. Don’t hang around just because you’re scared that you’ll never feel that kind of electricity again. It’s not true, it never was. The thing is, you were made to be touched by hands attached to a body that finds itself at rest when it’s with you. That finds itself quietly trembling when you’re together. Those hands need to come with gentle words and an honest mouth. A mouth that says your name in a way that sounds like the very definition of “falling.” So don’t take less than that. Don’t take half of that.
Above all, if it hurts, go. You’ll fall in love so many times that you’ll lose count and it’ll shake you. Tiny vibrations like tectonic plates with every stranger who you looked into the eyes and made your body feel new. Find a love that makes you feel new, and better. Always like you’re moving and staying still at the exact same time. Grow, expand, and if it hurts, leave.—Azra.T “Lessons #2”
To love is to trust. Di sila dapat mag-isip ng kung anu-ano. Before them, your friends were already there. Di ka dapat i-restrict ng bf/gf mo to continue living the life that you had even before you met them, as long as you know your limitations. They may not trust your friends enough so i suggest na they too should get to know each other para maging panatag ang loob ng bf/gf mo. If kilala naman nila isa’t-isa, then maybe hindi sanay si bf/gf na may kahati sa attention mo. Yung gusto nila na kayo lang dalawa ang lagi magkasama, pero hindi rin healthy sa relationship yun. The world does not revolve around you guys alone. Hindi lang kayong dalawa ang tao sa mundo. Well, maybe they are just clingy. Maybe their trust was broken before. Baka naman gusto lang nila na yayain mo din sila sumama sa lakad ninyo ng friends mo. I have a friend na ganyan ang boyfriend. Work - bahay - work - bahay lang talaga sya. Hindi namin sya makasama kasi pinagbabawalan ni boyfriend. Two years na namin syang hindi nakikita. Natural, disappointed kami sa boyfriend nya.
Love is not selfish. Do not deprive your partner of their happiness. Baka masakal sayo partner mo, iwan ka. :p
More stuff for baby boy. Why is it that there are more stuff at the mall for baby girls than baby boys? Quite unfair. :( Girl’s stuff are cute and colorful while those of the boys’ are either blue or plain white. Sheesh.